I’m realizing that you can’t be in a real functioning relationship with someone who isn’t on the same page as you. & I’m not talking about simple stuff like if one person wants to watch a scary movie and other wants to watch a funny one … I mean the more effective things like lifestyles. If you and the other person are stuck in your ways, whether it be positive or negative … the relationship’s gonna be chaos from constantly bumping heads. You can’t make someone change their ways for you if they didn’t come into the relationship thinking you were the “one” to be able to. To some people love only goes to a certain extent and isn’t that effective to make a positive change on them. So I guess the lesson is: only invest your time and feelings in someone you know is worth it, and thinks the same of you.