“i just have to keep reminding myself that the man i will marry is out there somewhere. the man who will touch my heart like my favorite love song would. the man who will make me laugh for the rest of my life. the man who will dance with me, stride with me, hurt with me, understand me. he is out there, somewhere. probably thinking about his wife, or probably not, but praying for someone like me to come into his life and provide him the same spiritual wealth i hope to gain from him. he is out there.”